child playing at airport with plane in background

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Flying long distances with children doesn’t have to be a nightmare.

You know the scene: someone boards the plane with toddler in tow, and reactions ripple down the aisles. Some passengers smile, some nod in sympathy at the parent, and some tense up and scowl, recalling the crying baby on their last flight.

Travel can be inspiring for children, but sometimes the actual travel part is more challenge than reward. Here are 20 tips for taking babies and young children on long flights.

Preparation
Travel can be inspiring for children, but sometimes the actual travel part is more challenge than reward.

1. Book an overnight flight if you can. Your children will be worn out from the day’s activities, and hopefully sleepy.

2. Pick your seats strategically. Sitting at the back puts you close to the bathroom. But if your child is fidgety the bulkhead might be best. There, you don’t have to worry about your child kicking the back of someone’s seat.

3. Load kid-friendly movies or favorite TV shows on an iPhone or laptop. Be sure to charge all electronics before the flight.

4. The Frugal Traveler shares this advice: buy your child a new toy or book, just for the flight. Alternatively, you can wrap up an older toy. Seeing this toy in a different setting will be a novelty.

children playing with toys on airplane

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5. Paul Banas at GreatDad.com says to plan for the worst. Delays, cancellations, or hours of sitting on the tarmac will make everyone fidgety. Pack a lot more food, diapers and wipes than you think you’ll need.

6. For the sake of other passengers and yourself, pack non-noisy toys. An Etch-a-Sketch or coloring books are quiet, creative activities. If your child has electronic toys, be sure to check the volume settings.

7. Bring healthy snacks, especially if your child is a fussy eater. Foods that won’t melt or crumble are easiest; think trail mix or homemade sandwiches. Single Parent Travel suggests avoiding foods with caffeine or excess sugar.

8. Pack extra clothes for your child, since temperatures can vary on planes and in airports. Pack an extra shirt for yourself in case of baby spit-up or other mess.

9. Consider an inflatable potty seat to ease trips to the bathroom. On-the-Go Inflatables sells handy ones.

At the airport

10. Get to the airport early. After a car ride, lining up for check-in, then lining up again for security, kids will want to stretch their legs before sitting on a plane. You also might want to tire them out a bit with physical movement. Most airport websites will tell you whether a play area is offered. If not, find an open space where your kids can move around and play. As Travel Savvy Mom points out, this is also good advice for long layovers, as it burns up energy.

child with green suitcase in airport

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11. Children older than 3 or 4 should carry their own bags. Get a solid, comfortable rolling bag with shoulder straps so the bag can also be worn as a backpack. They can pack in it what they can carry.

12. Delicious Baby has great stroller advice: do your airport research to ease the transit. Most airlines will allow you to push your stroller all the way to the gate and check it there. Be sure to attach a tag to the stroller with your name, address, and contact information.

13. Before you go through the security point, explain the process to your child. It might be scary for a child to see his or her shoes or favorite toy disappear into an x-ray machine.

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About The Author

Anne Merritt

Anne Merritt has lived in Canada, Europe, and Asia. She teaches ESL, writes, haggles, hikes, and wears sunscreen fanatically. Her work has appeared in The Globe and Mail, GoOverseas.com, and The Compass. Check out her blog.

  • http://matadortravel.com/traveler/evasandoval EvaSandoval

    Great tips! Now I wonder if someone will ever write an article about how to survive a flight with someone else’s kids… ;)

  • http://hannahinmotion.wordpress.com Hannah In Motion

    Wonderful tips here, Anne. I’d like to add a couple of things as a long-time nanny and traveler:

    1. Bulk head seats are often not available to younger passengers. I was flying as a nanny from Chicago to Shanghai once and got ousted from my seat because of the infant on my lap.

    2. “Single Parent Travel suggests avoiding foods with caffeine or excess sugar…” Ohmygod, yes! I was once on a flight where the mother in front of me shoveled candy bars into her child the entire trip. Her kid stood up to disembark and promptly threw up into the aisle. Not too much chocolate, please.

    3. Inflatable potty…? I’m not sure how much I’d appreciate that if I was sitting next door…

    4. Lastly: I had heard of built-in baby cots on planes before, but had never seen one until a recent flight with Aerosvit from the Ukraine to the US. These are ingenious if you’ve got a long flight with a lap baby! Ask your airline if they have them on any of their fleet!

  • L Sones

    When our daughter was little, we always packed The Surprise Bag. She was not allowed to look in it beforehand. It was filled with small new toys, coloring books, pencils, a bit of candy, a couple of books, maybe soft fuzzy socks for a long flight, a new (or old favorite) DVD, etc. One of us would pick out the first surprise just before takeoff, then she would get another one every hour or so of the flight. We always packed plenty so there was usually enough for the return flight, with maybe a little topping up at our destination. Now that she’s a teenager, she still wants a surprise bag! And it’s still fun to have little presents for her – though of a different variety these days.

  • Rajasthan Tours

    Excellent tips .. beautiful pics

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