Comments on: Love in the time of Matador: Drawing our own ghosts

By: Tony

Tony — Fri, 17 Sep 2010 17:48:39 +0000

For couples still working through issues like this your writing shares how tough it can be both to reconcile this within yourself but also the extra effort required if couples stay together. Your decision was one you needed to make. For some the path may be reconciling the pain one causes to a loved one and a movement toward change and growth that can be healthy for both.

By: Andrea

Andrea — Sun, 08 Aug 2010 04:06:36 +0000

Thanks for writing and sharing this article, Angela.

By: Shreya

Shreya — Tue, 25 May 2010 21:46:29 +0000

way to go Angela!

By: Anne Hoffman

Anne Hoffman — Fri, 21 May 2010 20:14:57 +0000

Wow, this is awesome. You are so brave to share it.

By: Heather

Heather — Wed, 19 May 2010 17:09:16 +0000

Thanks for sharing this Angela.

By: angela

angela — Tue, 18 May 2010 16:30:30 +0000

thanks to everybody for your kind words!

By: angela

angela — Tue, 18 May 2010 16:29:25 +0000

aw thanks!

By: angela

angela — Tue, 18 May 2010 16:28:15 +0000

leigh, you’re so right that disappointing my parents was a huge part of it. i kept thinking it was not wanting to admit i was wrong or having them blame me, but i also didn’t want to look like i had failed in their eyes.

By: Amanda Ferrandino

Amanda Ferrandino — Tue, 18 May 2010 13:47:19 +0000

Beautiful, Angela. I had a similar experience of finally understanding that I had to love and sympathize with myself. It’s nice to hear someone else realized that too. I’m sending good vibes to you, girl!

By: Nick Rowlands

Nick Rowlands — Tue, 18 May 2010 12:39:04 +0000

Echoing Candice, glad you found the courage to share this story too. Thank you.