I WAS FIRST SINGLE in Manhattan at 24 years old, and I had to completely relearn the rules of dating from my prior romances on Long Island. Those whopping 56 miles were enough to change the game completely. What it comes down to is this: there is nothing that prepares you for dating in New York City, besides dating in New York City.
1. We don’t believe in labels.
In most places, the three-date rule applies, meaning you might wait three dates to score, at which point you’ll probably start thinking about where the relationship is headed. Manhattan is overrun with commitment-phobes. The phobia is so strong that planning date two might seem like a giant step.