1. The time I spend with another person is intended to be fleeting, casual, or temporary.
When I meet someone I connect with and tell them that I’m “only here for a few weeks,” their eyes usually glaze over. They’re usually having one of two thoughts: 1. They’re excited at the idea of a fling (assuming that’s what I want). Or 2. They’re put off by how casual the fling is going to be.